Arguments bring out the worst is people, so if someone takes a cheap shot at you during a spat today, you have to let it roll off your back. Don't ignore it, but don't use it as an excuse to start hitting below the belt yourself. Rise above this. Keep the conversation about the problem at hand, not their personal issues. Learning how to solve disputes is one of the most valuable skills you can cultivate -- and it's one you can nearly master, today, if you stay focused. |
