When a mistake happens today (and at least one will), you need to be the voice of authority. Help people focus on what needs to be fixed rather than on figuring out whom to blame. One of your partners in life or in work needs you to trust them, and they aren't willing to show you all of their cards just yet. Instead of being hurt, try to accept it. Show them that you do indeed trust them -- that you are there for them and are willing to give them the benefit of the doubt. |