Things are not going very smoothly for someone in your life who always seems to have the world on a string -- and it may throw you for quite a loop. Suddenly, the person you looked to as an example for how to behave no longer exists! What to do? After you recover from the shock, take some notes -- because this is a wonderful learning opportunity. It's time to be your own best example and stop modeling yourself after people you think you would like to be like. |