Don't get frustrated if your matchmaking efforts haven't gone the way you want -- you can't force feelings that don't exist! If you let your ego get caught up in the lives of other people, you are really asking for trouble. It's wonderful that you want the people you care about to be happy, but you aren't in charge of their happiness -- they are. Step back and let them find their own way to happiness. You found yours, and rest assured that they'll find theirs. |
