A good friend has been going through a life change that has caused you to look at your own life differently. This kind of self examination is very valuable, but it can also be a bit of a trap. Don't spend too much dwelling on your own thoughts about the future -- it will only isolate you from the here and now. You have to let yourself get caught up in the moment every once in a while. You cannot always be reflective or ponder the ins and outs of what you should do next. |